Monday, November 13, 2006

Don't Act Like An Elephant!


Here goes a nice article I came across few days before & found it very true.
Unknowingly, unwantedly we behave like elephant as said in the article by Thomas J. Stevens. We decide our boundries & feel happy to live within those.

If there is a way, I will find one.....
If there is none, I will make one....


Nayana

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Don't Act Like An Elephant!
by Thomas J. Stevens

Strange statement, isn't it?

But listen carefully because it can make the difference of success and failure in your business and private life.

So, let me explain...

You might know that in India elephants are used for manual labor. But what to do with them when they are not working? How to restrain them? Their handlers came up with the idea to "program" them while they are still very young - by setting self-imposed limits into their thinking.

How does it work?

When the elephants are still small, weighing around 150 pounds, they get tied up with a very heavy rope. All day long, the elephants try to get rid of it, whine, tug at it and some of them even try to chew it. But they can't break free. Finally, the elephants give up and the fight is over. And now it's getting interesting... From this moment on, they strongly believe that there is absolutely no chance to get rid of the rope. They accept the "fact" that the rope limits them. And with this imprinted belief in place, their handlers are able to tie them with extremely small ropes! And even as adults, weighing 8,000 pounds and more, they never attempt to break free because they "know" they have no chance at all! As you can see, the elephants limits are not real, but exist only in their mind. And also we are programmed with built-in-boundaries. They are also not real but exist only in our minds.

But with these imprinted belief systems, with these inner boundaries, we are unable...

- to live our lives to the fullest
- to be successful as we could be
- to set and reach higher goals
- to make 10 times more money as we do now
- to build a successful business
- to get the promotion and pay increase we always dreamed of
- to fulfill our true dreams and desires
- etc.

But it hasn't to stay this way. Our negative belief systems don't have to limit us for good. If you truly want to become successful and are not kidding yourself, you can change your inner belief system, your attitude, and your inner boundaries. You always have the inner strength; the personal power to change everything in your life for the better. Just try! So, never give up! Never act like an elephant!
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5 comments:

Anonymous said...

good work !

wats the need said...

Tats really interesting....unfortunately true ...

wats the need said...

Tats interesting and unfortunately true for most of the ppl....:-(

MusingMunitions said...

Hi!
That was a very good thing you have posted...
Really thoughtful...
Keep posting...
You're right - we do not possess the guts or the thought to quetion assumptions, biases and limits... and you know what's worse? We laugh at those who do...
Let's break free!

Anonymous said...

Again something to say on this. :)

We all live like an elephant. Not because we don't know our capabilities but because people will laugh if we fail. We all are trying to behave in a manner so that other people will give some izzat to us... u may not be agree on this but think again.

for example- After seeing rang de basanti most of the people set there mind to do something for the nation. But what's the result. All people have capabilities but all are afraid of the fact that people will laugh if we fail.

we r also laughing on such people who fails while trying something different. don't we?

we can not stop other people laughing at us. So What... Hasatil tyache daat disatil.. do what u wants to do...